Frequently Asked Questions

Smart Casual. Do not wear stiletto heels as the party will be on a grassy area and they will likely sink in. There will be outdoor heaters, but please keep in mind that this event will be outside in October, so we recommend bringing layers.

Formal; full length dresses and suits — color encouraged. Please do not wear a white, cream, or ivory dress. Similarly, avoid floral prints on a white dress. Stiletto heels are not recommended, the ceremony will be on a grassy area and they will likely sink in. There will be outdoor heaters, but please keep in mind that this event will be outside in October, so we recommend bringing layers.

With a limited capacity based on the venue cutoff, we have addressed all Save the Dates and Invites to reflect the names of those invited or have included 'Guest' in the address line for additional plus 1s. If your invite does not say 'and Guest', please do not bring an additional person unless you want to make the bride cry on her wedding day. The main exception to this is for children on the Saturday event. If you feel you have a specific circumstance, feel free to reach out to us to chat it through.

We only addressed the envelopes to the adults who are being invited. If you have a kiddo whom you would like to bring to the Saturday event, there is a place on the RSVP to let us know! However, please organize child care for them on Sunday. Feel free to reach out to us about who else is bringing kids and we can try to connect you to collaborate on a joint sitter.

Check out our Stay Suggestions. We have a room block at the Super 8 (about 15 minutes away from the venue).

Gifts are not required, we are mostly happy to spend this special time with you. If you really want to give us a physical gift, please consider that we live in a small NYC apartment that is already filled from when we combined our entire sets of belongings as two 30+ year-olds who had already been living on our own for years. If you still really want to give us a physical gift, please reach out to us first. Donations to our honeymoon fund can be made here or at the wedding by check.